Life is to short not to have fun!
A rough man, who works hard and long hours. A man who plays hard for long hours. A man who can worship his Queen or can demand worship from his woman. A man who wants it all and deliver as well as extract the power of submission.
Someone intelligent, who can take possession, as well as be possessed. Someone who plays hard. One who can give or take till the whole thing is done. Love for all that love can be. Feel the world and the waves crash all around. And is kinky.