The man never chooses the woman. All he can do is give her an opportunity to choose him.
I am an Army Reservist and have been deployed twice both to Iraq and Afghanistan. Currently work in law downtown. I have done Martial Arts for a couple of years so I stay in shape with that. I was a bit of a workaholic so I haven't made time to go out and try to date someone and with just returning home from Afghanistan I am looking for someone to help fill that void.
I work a lot so I am just looking for somebody to get hot and sweaty with occasionally. There could be potential for emotional attachment if the right person comes along.