deviation from the norm
Classical conditioning is imposed on us, whereby in order to attain a sense of belonging we have to adhere to the standards of the norm. I Deviate from said standards, within the acceptable paramaters of the norm.
One of the most basic human needs is the need for sex. Someone that is uninhibited, and can give free reign to sexual urges, and still be comfortable within self. Someone thats bold enough to deviate from the norm.