Mature, but still Fun with a capital F.
Happy, secure, discreet and friendly. Not looking for a relationship, although that can never be completely ruled out if a connection happens naturally. For now, simply looking for a woman interested in a casual, yet satisfying sexual relationship, for both parties, because I enjoy giving satisfaction even more than receiving it.
Fun, likes to laugh, enjoys sex and isn't afraid to talk about it and occasionally initiate it. I've been told women enjoy sex as much as men, but still looking for a women to prove that statement. Not simply in quantity, 'cuz lots of bad sex is still bad sex. Rather someone who believes it's an important part of a good relationship and is willing to make it at least as important as finding good restaurants, live music and good movies. To me, there's nothing better than going out for a nice dinner, dancing or a movie, perhaps a nightcap after and then home, knowing all evening that before it ends, you will share mind blowing sex. That can make the whole evening part of the foreplay. Holding doors, gentle touches, light kisses as the waiter walks away... someone who believes in this is the partner I'm looking for.